Do you ever catch yourself walking with your head hung low or defeated by the results of an attempt? Do you find yourself letting those feelings stop you from pursuing other dreams? When you reflect over your life, do you every think to yourself, there is no need to try, I will just be rejected?
What if I told you those thoughts of defeat stop here today? If you knew your attempt would be successful this time, would you make that attempt? This week, Khayree Pender will show you three simple tools to adjust your perspective and change your life.
Verses referenced in this lesson:
Romans 8:28โ39
Hello, Man in the Mirror. Welcome back to another Bible study. Iโm Khayree Pender, and I will be in the Book of Romans. Romans 8:28-39. And let me tell you something. I get so excited when I was able to read these verses and able to share this text with you on today. So from this text weโll be talking about Created to Conquer If. Created to conquer if. And you may say created to conquer, but then you give me if. Donโt worry, I have those for you as well. Youโre created to conquer if you know these three things, your purpose, your position, and your persuasion. And in these verses we will dissect it and find out what is it that weโre exactly talking about? Created to conquer if. But let me ask you a question. What if I told you that you possess something that will allow you to win and always have favor on your side?
Maybe that may not be good enough. What if I told you that you donโt have to do much to obtain it. A little closer? What if I told you that itโs already resided in you and you will never be defeated? Hereโs the Big Idea, when youโre in the right hand, youโre in the right hand. Letโs get into the verse. Verse 28 says this, โAnd we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.โ
PURPOSE
Thatโs our first box today. Itโs your purpose. And what is the purpose? Letโs just talk about it. As we begin to look at the purpose, a purpose is the reason for which something is done or created, or for which something exist. So just in that alone we know that you have a purpose. You are existing on earth right now.
Youโre watching this Bible study. You are living life right now, you have a purpose, you have a purpose. And what is our purpose? It really feeds us to what weโre doing as far as being created. A lot of people get thrown off or get frustrated, because they donโt feel as though that theyโre operating in their purpose, or letโs just be honest, man. I even went through a time through live where I questioned and said, โDo I even have a purpose? Am I here? What is my purpose? What is it that I need to do?โ And then I found myself substitute my existing purpose for something that wasnโt really for me. And I felt myself even more frustrated. Let me tell you this and ease your mind. Youโll know when youโre operating in purpose, because the frustrations will be so limited, so low, you wouldnโt feel incomplete.
And if youโre not fully moving in your purpose, it would be something always tell you, โListen, I just feel like thereโs something I need to do.โ And itโll drive you more towards it. But when something has a purpose, itโs there for existence to fulfill a need that itโs created for. You are here to fulfill the need that youโre created for. And let me tell you something, your purpose is so powerful that itโs connected to other people and that they wonโt be able to be released until you start operating in your purpose. People are waiting on you to fully operate in what it is that youโre called to do, your purpose. It tells us in the verse, and we know that all things work together to the good for those who love God. When your purpose and youโre aligned up, all things work together, they work together for the good.
And let me tell you something. Have you ever ventured out and faced something that may have been something sort of a giant up to you, maybe a job field, or maybe a next step, or maybe move in and doing something, but you felt like you were defeated and you felt like, you know what, nah, I may not even be able to approach this because itโs way out of my league. Well, let me tell you something. When you operate in the purpose, none of those things will be able to cause you to look away and look down and say, โYou know what? I canโt do this. This is not for me. I need to do something else.โ Because purpose gives you a driving factor that gives you some type of energy thatโs inside of you, that it gives you the charge to just go, go and go.
Iโm telling you, as youโre operating in it, verse 28 tells us and we know, and thatโs the main part, โThat all things work together.โ And it says this, โFor those who call it according to his purpose.โ Youโre calling, your existing, youโre living, you have a purpose. So those things will fall in line for you, and you have to understand and know it. You have to make sure that youโve fallen in line with your purpose, because it makes you able and capable to dominate whatever youโre faced with. Your purpose helps you drive line, because you know what? Purpose will not let you fail. Purpose will keep you going. It had always given you an edge to say, โYou know what, I canโt stop. I have to keep going.โ But in this, as Paul is directing us and showing us, in the scriptures is really gathering us together.
We have to know before we can even move and conquer something that you got a purpose. So maybe people wonโt move or even begin to approach things, because they feel like they donโt even have the purpose to do it. They donโt know where to start, how to start, who to talk to, who to be connected with. And they donโt even know how to operate. But let me tell you something. Once you begin to start operating in your purpose, those things will begin to help you build to know that you can conquer things if. Here we are conquering some things. And I have a question for you that I would like to ask/ The question is this, โWhat are some fears that make you feel like that you canโt conquer your purpose? What are some things?โ
We can talk about it, we can examine it, and we can look at it. But man, I want you to take some time right now and really focus and reflect. What are some things. What is some fears that you have? And letโs just be honest. I donโt know if youโre watching this with somebody, you may be by yourself that you can freely talk about it. What are some fears that say, โYou know what? I donโt really think I can concur it. I donโt really think that I can do it. I donโt know if my purpose is in line. I just donโt know.โ Thatโs something that I want you to really think and take some time or reflect about it, man. Thatโs what I want you to think about. So we know that we have a purpose and we found that in verse 28, and after all our Big Idea is when you are in the right hand, you are in the right hand. What do you mean?
POSITION
Letโs go to verse 34. And thatโs when weโll talk about position. What is position? A position is a particular way in which someone or something is placed or arranged. Someone, something is placed or arrange. Let me tell you something. Itโs not by happy chance wherever you may be in the United States or in the world watching this Bible study that youโre placed there strategically in your position. And one thing about your position, when youโre in your position is for you to be in that place and cover a certain amount of area to make sure you protect whatever it may be. Letโs just think about sports. You can think about baseball. If you were a shortstop on the outfield, we can talk about football. If youโre a sitter or wide receiver, we could talk about basketball. If youโre a power before or a shooting guard, theyโre all positions and they covered their grounds.
Well, letโs go to verse 34. As we look at verse 34 it says this to us, โWho is he who condemns?โ Great question. โIt is Christ who died and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us.โ Who was he who condemns. Listen, let me tell you something. You canโt condemn. You cannot get me and lock me in. I am in my position. Letโs talk about that placement. Letโs talk about that position. So we know that we have our purpose. And then now we in verse 34 is talking about our position. Our placement or position if you will, is so important because we tend to feel defeated sometimes when we move from what is originally designated for us. So many times some of the feelings that we come, that we feel defeated and not conquerors because weโre moving from the position.
Why are you moving from the position? You have to stay where you are and guard that area. And what are you saying that you guard? Iโm guarding my future, my life, my spirit, my soul. Iโm guarding so many things, and itโs helping me on this journey to conquering things if. My position plays a major part. Our position ultimately protects us and it tells us even Jesus is at the right hand. So like our Big Idea said, โWhen youโre at the right hand, youโre at the right hand. When youโre at the right hand, youโre at the right hand.โ That right hand is talking about positioning. Itโs talking about being in place. And when weโre in the right hand, that means weโre in the right hand. What are we in the right hand for? The right hand for victory, for us to get the projected outcome that we want.
So hereโs the [inaudible 00:08:55], hereโs the kick. The great thing about this is, even if we donโt get the designated outcome, because I say this, โHey, Iโm going to go here. Iโm going to do this. Iโm going to get this. Iโm going to walk out with this. Iโm going to do this.โ And sometimes they donโt really work like that, and I tend to get frustrated. But hereโs the great thing about being in the right hand. In the right hand, even when the outcome does not work out the way that we want it to work out, we still win. Ask this, โWho can condemn?โ We are in the right hand, my position is to be right there. My position will allow me to feel complete, not defeated. My position I wonโt move for, because itโs designated for me. My position is a placement and a position thatโs very important. Donโt ever let anybody tell you that you donโt belong here, that you donโt belong there.
You know that you have a purpose and that you have a purpose, you have a placement. And if you know you have a placement, you have a purpose. It works either way. You have to know those things. If you are in place, that means youโre there for a purpose. You have to understand and know. And guess what, when you have that purpose, itโs lined up for you to have a placement. You have those things because when youโre in the right hand, youโre in the right hand. I have a question for you. Hereโs the question that I want to ask. Itโs simple, โIn a revolving world of multiple opportunities, what are some things that you depend on to keep your position secured? In a revolving world, full of opportunities. What do you do to keep yourself secure in your position?โ There has to be something, and itโs going to build on what we talk about next.
But you have to understand, you canโt get frustrated in your position. You canโt get uncomfortable in your position. Even though those things may come, you just got to learn to adjust. You have to make it your own. You have to be there for, it has to be there for you. Itโs your position. What do you do? Youโre there. Iโm telling you, you have to cover that area. You have to stick in that area and you have to be there. Itโs your position. Itโs your placement. Who can condemn? It is Christ who died and furthermore came back. He risen. And not only did he come back, heโs interceding. So let me tell you something. Before you even face those trials, before you even face those results, heโs already interceding for you and before you to make sure that those things happen the way that they need to. Even if it feels like youโre not winning, even if it feels like itโs not working your way, guess what? Youโre still making it through.
So in a revolving world, full of opportunities, all types of places and positions for you. How do you secure your placement? How do you secure your position? What keeps you grounded and what says, โHey, no, Iโm not going to move. Not too early, not too quick, because I donโt want to forfeit whatโs there before me.โ Our Big Idea told us when youโre in the right hand, youโre in the right hand.
PERSUASION
So now that weโre looking at that, it brings us through our third bubble, our third point, and itโs simply talking about persuasion. And let me tell you something, we can go on and on about persuasion, but weโll keep it to a minimum. We know our timeframe. Persuasion is this. Itโs a belief or just a set of beliefs. And what do we do tend? Sometimes to push our beliefs on other people.
I try to push it and persuade people all the time, that mayonnaise is the worst condiment made to man. I try to persuade people, but my persuasion isnโt that good, if they love it, they love it. I try to tell them that, โIf you want a nice sandwich, you need spicy mustard on it.โ Persuade them that mayonnaise is not the way to go, but thatโs my belief.
And I try to persuade people, but the thing is this. Certain people are stuck in their way and say, โYou know what? You wont persuade me for that because I like it.โ And thatโs how we need to be. We have to be in that place. It says this in verse 38, it tells us this. It says, โFor I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor power, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created things shall be able to,โ and I love that part. Hereโs my favorite part, โto separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus, our Lord.โ
No thing. Those things that Paul was referencing and what we are looking at touches everything. Not no life, not death. None of those things can pull us out. None of those things can separate us, but persuasion has to be at an all-time high. You had to make sure that your mind is locked in. You have to make sure that your mind is set upon what it is that you know and see. And if Iโm going to conquer something, I canโt get persuaded in the middle of my decision. I have to make sure that Iโm stuck in my decision and that no matter what comes my way, it cannot persuade me. So what are some things that we may face when persuasion comes, when weโre facing the opportunity? Doubt will whisper in your ear.
Fear will give you a call, distrust will send you a message, shaking or not being ready. Those things will be tapping on your shoulder. All those things will come with a certain message to try to persuade you to say, โYou know what? This is not the way to go. Donโt do it. You donโt want to fail. You donโt want people to look at you. You donโt want people to ask you what happened and you have to explain it. You donโt want people to laugh at you.โ But let me tell you this. If you know that you are built and you have a purpose, you have a position and your persuasion is right. Thatโs the leeway for you to say, โYou know what? I can conquer this.โ Men do we walk around with our heads low, saying, โYou know what? Weโre defeated. Iโm not walking around like a conqueror. Iโm walking around as a person thatโs defeated before I even get to it.โ
No. What is persuasion? Let me tell you something. Thereโs going to be a lot of things thatโs going to try to persuade you. Thereโs going to be a lot of things thatโs going to try to tempt you in all shapes and sizes and advances. But you have to know that you wonโt be defeated by those things, whether it be monetary or thoughts, or even family members that may come and try to scare you off and say, โYou know what? Donโt even give it a try.โ But you have to know that you have to keep your mind fixed and stay there. He says it with confidence, โFor I am persuaded.โ I know that, itโs my belief. Iโm stuck on it that not death nor life, and those are some of the most ultimate things at the top of the chain when we begin to look at those hierarchy of things that make me say, โYou know what? That can ultimately push me away and make me scared of it.โ
But Iโm not persuaded. Death, life, angels, principalities, or powers, things present, or even things to come. Remember when we talked about it in the verse before, that it said, โYou know what? In my position heโs interceding for me.โ It follows up and it grabs verse 38 and say, โYou know what? Iโm persuaded because it shows me Iโm not worried about the things to come because the intercession has already went before us.โ Iโm sorry guys. Iโm getting so excited because the persuasion, itโs easy to get persuaded. Letโs just think about it. Iโm telling you right now 1.5 million will make me scratch my head right now to say, โAh, I donโt know.โ
The right type of temptation may come to try to persuade you away, but you have to know, I canโt abort what Iโm here for because I have a purpose. I have a position and I will not be persuaded, because I am here to conquer. I was created to conquer. Men, I want to encourage you on today. You are created to conquer. And thereโs some things that you know within yourself that you put on that back shelf, you know that thereโs some things that youโre looking at that you need to face again. And thereโs some things that you need to adjust approach. So I have a question for you. โWhat persuades you to stay consistent with your choices in life?โ And I have a follow-up question. โAre you easily persuaded? What persuades you to stay consistent with your choices in life, and are you easily persuaded?โ Men, are we living like the conquerors Paul described in the scripture, or are we living like our feelings are creating us to go through this?
Men, what are we living like today? We are here. You are created to conquer. And I courage you today to go back to that bookshelf or that notebook that you wrote that plan down to. I encourage you to go back to that email. I encourage you to go back to those plans that you had already out, that you thought were too big and that you couldnโt conquer. I want to let you know that you were built to conquer. These verses told us, it explained to us, and guess what? Even if it donโt come out to the desired outcome that we think it should come to, we still come out on top. The intercession is before us. You have a purpose that you need to fulfill. You are existing for a reason. You are here. You have a position. Your position is counting on you, and people are connected to that position and they canโt be released to fully move into what they need to until you walk into your purpose.
And then you cannot be persuaded on the back end. That persuasion will not get you, no matter what it may be. Life, death, principalities, angels. Whatโs here now in the present. Whatโs to come in the future. None of those things will be able to separate you, because youโre so connected. You are at the right hand. And if youโre in the right hand, youโre in right-hand and thatโs what weโre doing today men. Men, I hope youโre encouraged on the day and weโre just going to simply pray out. And I pray that you go back and look at those things. I pray that youโre energized and youโre ready to conquer what it is thatโs before you. Letโs bow our heads in a word of prayer.
Dear Lord, heavenly father. We thank you for these mighty men. These mighty men who are listening right now. God we ask that your word pricks their heart right now God. We pray that God that they go back to those things that they dreamed about, those things that they felt like they were defeated, that they never gave a chance to, that theyโre there, that they have the points right now, God, to apply and say, โYou know what? I am created to conquer. Iโm not created to fail. Iโm not created to give up. Iโm not created to second guess, but I am created to conquer.โ Why? โBecause I have a purpose. I have a position and I will not be persuaded. And I know that if Iโm in the right hand, Iโm in the right hand. And that even though it may not work out the way that I may not think, itโs working out the way that God called according to it to be. And Iโm not going to get frustrated and walk away and separate myself because I will not separate myself. And none of these things will have the power to separate us.โ
God, we pray today that your love and your kindness saturate the men right now, God, and that they go out and they charge and get back to what it is that you call them to be. We thank you for everything that youโve done, God, everything that youโre going to do. In your name we pray, Jesus. Amen. God bless you.


