The Big Idea: Good men rely on their goodness; Godly men rely on Jesus
Most men are basically trying to live a decent life. They want to be good husbands, want to have a good career, want their kids to turn out well. But sometimes trying to be good feels like it sucks the life out of your soul.ย Nicodemus was a good man who came to Jesus and walked away changed after Jesus rocked his world.ย Sometimes we need a reminder about what the gospel is all about and how we can find and live out true manhood.
Special Messages of 2016
Jesus Isnโt Looking for a Few Good Men
Unedited Transcript
David Delk
Good morning men. It is awesome to be with you today. Iโm so excited about the opportunity to get a chance to teach this morning and excited about the passage that weโre going to be looking at, mainly because it applies to me so much. You guys are going to either benefit from that or suffer through that; Iโm not sure which. I want to just tell you real briefly a quick story about some of what Godโs doing through Man in the Mirror. As you know, we now have 90 plus men around the country that are working with churches to help them reach and disciple men. Weโre hearing some amazing stories from their work. We recently got a testimony from one of our field staff.
He said, โToday I met with my third church since we did the training at the end of April. It was great to sense their hopeful attitude towards the future of their men and the church. There have been a lot of icebergs in their church and they feel like the captains of the Titanic.โ I donโt know if any of you have ever felt that way. โThey are headlong into their Fatherโs Day Baseball Game Event and will launch a new menโs study with those who attend at the completion of this study. Theyโre leading right into their fall cycle of ministry using the principles that we taught.โ I quote, โWe are very grateful for you helping us out. We have hope for our men now.โ
This is the testimony that weโre receiving from churches all across the country as we begin to help them implement these principles that help them move men into life and life discipleships. Thanks to those of you who are praying for us, who are partnering with us. Itโs such a blessing. I would let you know that we are facing a cash flow crunch right now. We need about $275,000 in the next month to get back on track. We are praying that the Lord would open some doors to us. The reality is there are probably 10,000 men who are going to be watching this video and if only a few hundred of you responded to that need then we would be in great shape. I ask you to pray and if the Lord leads you in that direction we would love to have you partner with us. I could tell you this, itโs going to be a leveraged investment that is going to make a tremendous difference in the lives of men all across the country. We think about the marriages, we think about the children, and thatโs what itโs about, itโs about changed lives.
Weโre going to get started today and weโre going to do it by having a little competition. I know itโs early in the morning and some of these tables have less people than others, youโre just going to need to step up. Youโre really going to need to step up, you got to be like 8 guys today. Oh no, you got a partner. Hereโs what weโre going to do, Iโm going to put some letters up on the screen and at your table youโre going to try to find as many words as you can using any or all of the letters in this words that Iโm going to put up on the screen. Okay? Iโm putting up 9 letters or 7 letters, whatever it is, you can have 2 that are words, you can have 3 that are words.
Now I would encourage you, donโt yell them out. Okay, because the table right next to you is going to hear what youโre saying. Somebody needs to get a pen, somebody needs to get a paper, they need to be the scribe, and you need to lean down, you need to whisper to them these words. All right, weโre going to give you 60 seconds. At the end of 60 seconds weโre going to see which table has the most words. Here we go. Thereโs the phrase: โgood manโ. How many words can you form using the letters that you see in โgood manโ? Okay, you ready? Set, go. They can be 2 letter words, 3 letter words, 5 letter words. 30 seconds. 15 seconds. 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, pencils down. Pencils down. Okay, count them up. Count them up, see how many you came up with. All right, how many tables got more than 5? Raise your hand if you got more than 5. Okay, how many tables got 10 or more, 10 or more? Okay, awesome. How many tables got 15 or more? Whoa. All right, how many did you get? 17. 16. We have a winner.
Stand up and take a bow, stand up and take a bow, thatโs all you get. You just get to stand up and take a bow, this is it, this is your reward. Yeah, nice flourish to it. Thank you. All right, give these guys a hand. How many words do you think there are total? You want to hear their words? All right, read them quickly. Oh, you didnโt write them down? Oh, that is disappointing. You got to write them down. Okay, man this is a tough crowd. Now they want to win back here because they have them written down. How many words total do you think there are that you can make? 47. 47 words. Did anybody see โamongโ? Among is in there, go about โgoonโ? Got goon, okay, good. All right so 47 different words you can make from that.
Now you might not immediately be obvious that there are that many words that could be formed from that. Doing this this early in the morning is a little bit cruel, I realize that. Some of you guys are like, โLook, Iโve had like 2 sips of coffee, why are we doing this?โ It reminds me of having a pop quiz back in school. I used to hate pop quizzes. Especially when you werenโt prepared, you were supposed to have read something or you were supposed to have studied something. The teacher gives you a hint, โHey make sure you look over your worksheetsโ or whatever. The next day you walk in, โAll right weโre having a quiz.โ The worst feeling. Sometimes tests in life come that way, donโt they? Theyโre unexpected, theyโre not something that weโre looking for.
Today this passage is a little bit like that for this man named Nicodemus. I want to look at John, chapter 3. Weโre going to kind of just walk through this text. If you want to keep your bibles open or your phoneโs screen on, or however you want to do it, weโre going to kind of just walk through John, chapter 3. Weโre actually going to cover quite a bit this morning. Weโre not going to read it all right now, weโll read it as we go along. John chapter 3, beginning in verse 1. โNow there was a man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews. This man came to Jesus by night and said to him, โRabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God for no one can do these things that you do unless God is with him.’โ
Okay, so setting the stage here a little bit, here you have Nicodemus. He was a Pharisee, and weโve talked about before here that the Pharisees kind of get a bad rap today because we see them through Jesusโ eyes, but really these were the conservative religious leaders of the day. They were trying to do, most of them, the right thing. Jesus said, โYou give a tenth of everything, even down to your spices.โ Their issue was not that somehow they were charlatans or hypocrites or something like that. They were trying to stand against the Romans, they were trying to preserve their religious heritage. Jesusโ issue with them is something very different and weโre going to see that as he talks to Nicodemus in this passage.
Nicodemus was a good guy. If he was here we would all like him. Okay? He would be our kind of person. He comes to Jesus at night and the first thing he does is he calls Jesus โteacherโ, he says โRabbi, we know that you are a teacherโ. It kind of gives us the perspective that Nicodemus has about Jesus. The reality is itโs the perspective that a lot of people bring to Jesus, itโs the perspective a lot of us bring to Jesus.
I remember when I was in college I had met this young woman, whoโs now my wife. One summer I was at home in Atlanta at the time and she happened to have an uncle that just turned out that lived about 2 or 3 miles from my house and she was living with him for the summer. He didnโt have any boys and I found out he had 2 daughters. I found out that he needed some trees cut down and cut up in his backyard, not big huge things but just some work that needed to be done with a chainsaw. I volunteered to go over and to โฆ Hey what better way to impress this girl than to help her uncle out?
I go over there with the chainsaw and Iโm in college so Iโm wearing shorts and all the things youโre not supposed to do. I finish cutting 1 thing and Iโve got it up and Iโm kind of cutting it into firewood size pieces or whatever. Finish with this one and Iโm getting ready to walk to the other one and I take the chainsaw and I step like this and I feel something. I look down and I see on my knee, right beside my kneecap this white streak. The first thing that goes through my mind is โฆ If you remember when you were a kid and you were skateboarding, or riding your bike and you fell on the asphalt and you kind of got that scrape that was white. You know? I thought, โI cannot believe that I hit my knee with a chainsaw and the only thing it did was take that little layer of skin off. How is that even possible, I am so lucky, that is amazing.โ
I took the chainsaw and I found the off button to actually turn it off because I figured I might to at least check my knee. Iโm turning it off and I put the chainsaw on the ground over here, walk over to the driveway so itโs not in the dirt and I put it down. Then I look back at my leg and the whole bottom half of my leg is just red. I had not just scraped the top layer of skin off, that was all the fat and stuff underneath that I had seen when I looked down. You know, the actions when I thought that I had just scraped my leg, my heart rate was calm, I took my time turning off the chainsaw. I walked 3 or 4 steps, put it down casually onto the driveway thinking it wasnโt that big a deal. It was very different when I looked down and saw what was really going on with my leg. All of the sudden Iโm like, โoh my goodness. What do I do now?โ I mean Iโm trying to hold the flaps together and stop the bleeding and all kinds of stuff.
Rather than figure out how to get my knee here I just took a picture of it. I figured you guys are going to want to see my knee. Here it is, 30 years later. Thereโs my scar in the middle of my knee, still there. Itโs unbelievable it didnโt touch my kneecap or anything, it was amazing. The reality is at first I didnโt think it was a big deal. When you donโt think something is a big deal, then you handle it one way. You know, eventually I realized this was serious. Right, this was serious and it really needed to be taken care of. Then I handled it a whole different way.
The reality is that when Nicodemus was coming to Jesus, he didnโt think it was all that big a deal. What he thought was, โI need a teacher, I need a Rabbi. I need somebody to give me some instruction.โ Thatโs how he came to Jesus. The reality is that a lot of men come to Jesus in a very self sufficient kind of way. You know, โIโm doing all right with my life, even if the people around me may not agree with that. Iโm happy with it. Itโd be nice to kind of have Jesus in there too, you know because what could that hurt?โ
Sometimes even as Christian men we get in this rut where weโre sort of living out our life, weโre kind of being nice to people, weโre spending time with our wife, weโre doing basically a good job at our workplace and Jesus is a nice thing to have as a part of our life, weโre glad heโs there but weโre basically coming to him not out of need and not out of desperation, but weโre rather coming to him out of a position of self-sufficiency and perceived strength that, โHey itโs really all that bad.โ
Thatโs what was going on with Nicodemus. The first thing that we see is that good men are drawn to Jesus. Thatโs what happened with Nicodemus. He wanted Jesus to be a part of his life. You think about politicians, business leaders, all kinds of people kind of tack Jesus on to what theyโre doing. Itโs kind of like having Jesus in your crowd is a good thing, you want Jesus in your posse, it helps your reputation. We see that all around us. Of course thatโs not what Jesus is about.
Verse 4 is this incredible, abrupt, almost non sequitur, it doesnโt follow from what Nicodemus has said. Nicodemus seems to be making this polite statement to Jesus, it seems to be a very praising Jesus. It doesnโt seem to be mean or sarcastic or anything. Yet look what Jesus says to Nicodemus in verse 3. Jesus answered him, โTruly, truly I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.โ Now that does not seem to follow from what Nicodemus has said. What Jesus is doing is he is trying to demonstrate, and heโs going to keep doing this through the end of the passage weโre looking at today, that Nicodemus, the fundamental problem of Nicodemus is that he is coming to Jesus out of that self sufficient mindset. โI can handle this on my own. I can make it, I just need some help.โ Jesus says here in verse 3, โUnless you are born againโ.
Now he uses the phrase for literally being born again. We see this in verse 4. Nicodemus said to him, โHow can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his motherโs womb and be born?โ Nicodemus doesnโt really think Jesus is saying that but heโs trying to figure out what in the world is Jesus saying because he just literally said you have to be born again. Now weโve heard that phrase โborn againโ. We know being saved or becoming a Christian or having a relationship with God, but if you had never heard that phrase before, you would be thinking โฆ Jesus does this a lot in the book of John. He talks about eating his flesh and drinking his blood. Heโs willing to say things that really turn peopleโs worlds upside down.
We have tamed Jesus a lot in our minds because weโre coming at it from 2,000 years of history and interpretation and, โWell he really meant this. We take this with this in mindโ, and we smooth all this stuff out and we make it very tame and very safe and very comfortable. Jesus just told a dude that you got to get back in your motherโs uterus and be born again. Thatโs what he said to this guy when this guy told him that he was a great teacher. That doesnโt seem like the words of a great teacher, it kind of seems like a crazy person.
Why is Jesus doing that? Heโs doing that because he knows heโs got to disrupt Nicodemusโ world view. He goes on in verse 5, โTruly, truly I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.โ Probably being born of water and the spirit is a natural birth and a spiritual birth. Jesus is beginning to elaborate, โThat which is born of the flesh is flesh and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.โ Heโs telling Nicodemus, Iโm not talking about a physical rebirth, Iโm talking about a spiritual rebirth. โDo not marvel that I said to youโ, verse 7, โyou must be born again. The wind blows where it wishes and you hear its sound but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes; so it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.โ
Just like the wind blows without us doing anything to cause it, without us understanding the source, knowing where itโs going to end up, the Spirit brings rebirth in menโs lives. Nicodemus at this point is befuddled, as you can imagine. How can this be? What is going on? Jesus answered him, โAre you the teacher of Israel and yet you do not understand these things?โ Now I want you to see whatโs happening here because Jesus begins an almost relentless attack on Nicodemus. Itโs hard for us to see it in English, but if you read John 3 and then you compare it to John 4 with the woman at the well, you will see an incredible difference in the way that Jesus deals with these people.
Nicodemus goes to all the trouble, here he is this high profile, prominent leader. Weโre going to see him later, heโs going to have enough pull that heโs going to be part of getting Jesusโ body back to bury it. This is a guy who has got some significant connections and he goes out of his way at a risk to his reputation, at the risk to his standing. He goes out of his way to meet Jesus at night and Jesus doesnโt let him get a word in edgewise. Nicodemus is finished talking. He said like 9 words or whatever. Jesus just hammers Nicodemus in this passage. Then you compare it to John chapter 4 with this woman at the well who has been with 7 men and is an outcast and is a Samaritan, the Jews arenโt even supposed to relate to. Jesus is just like, Hey how are you doing? Whatโs going on? Howโs your life? Tell me about that, whatโs that like?. Itโs a completely different approach and itโs very interesting to think about why that is.
I believe itโs because he knew what Nicodemus really needed and that was Nicodemus needed to have his world turned upside down. Jesus totally cuts him off and he basically slams him. Youโre the teacher and you donโt understand this? How can you call yourself a teacher? โTruly, truly, I say to you, we speak of what we know and bear witness to what we have seen, but you do not receive our testimony.โ The problem is you donโt believe what Iโve been telling you Nicodemus. โIf I have told you earthly things and you do not believe, how can you believe if I tell you heavenly things? No one has ascended into heaven except he who descended from heaven, the Son of Man. As Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up; that whoever believes in him may have eternal life.โ
Jesus is laying out the whole deal here for Nicodemus. You remember the story during the Exodus when the snakes were biting the Israelites and Moses made a snake and lifted it up, and if they looked at the snake then they could be healed and protected from the poison? Jesus is saying the same thing has to happen with me. Iโve got to be lifted up. Of course we know thatโs going to happen on a cross where heโs both lifted up as a sacrifice and lifted up to be glorified and looked at from us. Jesus is saying, listen do you think Iโm a teacher? Well hereโs my teaching. Are you ready? The problem is you donโt believe it. You donโt believe it.
Then the famous verse, โFor God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through Him.โ He lays out for Nicodemus here this whole gospel. Nicodemus is on this track that what I need is I need a teacher to give me some information. Jesus says, no you donโt need a teacher, you need to believe, you need to be born again, you need to be transformed from the inside out. The problem is not just that you scraped a little layer of skin off your knee. The problem is that your whole leg is in danger of needing to be amputated and you need some deep, deep healing and transformation.
Nicodemus thinks heโs going to learn from Jesus how to be a better person. Jesus says, no thatโs not what itโs about. Itโs about abandoning yourself, being transformed as you worship me. The formal name for this is moralism, the idea that we are good because of what we do, that God accepts us because weโre righteous. If weโre honest, many of us have that kind of moralistic tendency. You feel better about yourself when you read your bible, when you pray, when you give money to the church, when youโre nice to people, when you sacrifice for somebody, those, โHey look at me. Iโm doing it well.โ Right? Then if you mess up, if you get angry at somebody when you shouldnโt, you go some few days without reading your bible, you realize you havenโt even prayed about this situation, โMan Iโm such a loserโ.
Whatโs the standard? The standard is my performance, but thatโs not the gospel. The gospel is the standard is my faith and my love and my worship of Jesus Christ and then my obedience and my behavior flows out of that. We first look to Christ and thatโs what Jesus is trying to say here. Jesus destroys moralism and demands exclusive allegiance. Look at the rest of this passage. Actually, this is borderline mean what Jesus does to Nicodemus. I donโt know if you can say Jesus was mean, I guess he needed to be mean so he was as close to it as you can get.
What has he said about Nicodemus? Heโs already said he didnโt believe. Look at verse 18. โWhoever believes in Him is not condemned; but whoever does not believe is condemned already,โ. Well who doesnโt believe? Nicodemus. By the way, Nicodemus, youโre condemned already. You want some teaching? Hereโs some teaching for you. โBecause he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. This is the judgement, the Light has come into the worldโ โฆ Now when did Nicodemus come to see Jesus? When did he come to see Jesus? At night. Look at this, โThis is the judgment, the Light has come into the world and people love the darkness rather than the light.โ Look at what Jesus is doing to Nicodemus.
Nicodemus, youโre ashamed. You got more concern about your reputation than you are about worshiping me. People love the darkness. Why do they love the darkness rather than the light? โTheir works are evil.โ You think youโre so good, Nicodemus, because you do all the things the law says? You think youโre so good because you live up to some artificial standards that you create? No, your works are evil. โFor everyone who does wicked thingsโ โฆ Jesus doubles down. โFor everyone who does wicked things hates the Light and does not come to the Light, lest his works should be exposed. But whoever does what is true comes to the Light so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.โ
Jesus destroys moralism. He shows that thereโs no way that in our own strength, in our own effort, that somehow we can satisfy God and that we can be good enough to be real men, strong men, true men. It doesnโt happen because we make it happen, thatโs not the gospel. You know the Big Idea for this morning is that good men rely on their goodness; godly men rely on Jesus. Good men rely on their goodness; godly men rely on Jesus.
I grew up in a wonderful Christian home, involved in some great churches when I was growing up, but the subtle message of sort of that southern, American, 1970โs and 80โs Christianity was be nice to people, say please and thank you, read your bible, pray, go to church, write your check, serve on a committee, do all that stuff, donโt have your hair too long, donโt get tattoos, donโt cuss, donโt smoke or chew tobacco. If you do all that, youโre a good man, youโre a good person. Okay, well if you followed me around you would see me talking to my wife, praying for my kids, texting my kids, basically at work being a nice person. I guess they would probably testify in the back, maybe you could ask them later. Hey, if thatโs what being a good man is all about, if thatโs what being a strong Christian is all about then who needs God? Right? I got that.
The scriptures say that man looks at the outward appearance and God looks at the heart. Think about what Jesus demands. Jesus says, โLove the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, all your strengthโ, not just some of your strength, not just your mind on Sundays, not just your heart when itโs convenient for you to worship and youโre not really doing anything at work. No, all of it. The first of the 10 commandments, โI am the Lord your God who brought you out of Egypt. You shall have no other gods before me.โ That exclusive worship, thatโs what God has made us for. He knows that we will only be fully alive when we have fully surrendered ourselves to him. We donโt need a teacher, we need a Savior. We donโt need somebody to just kind of clean up a few things, we need somebody to knock down the house and rebuild it from the ground up.
The problem is that when we look at our own effort, and we make our own effort the standard, one of 2 things is going to happen. Number 1 is youโre going to do what I often do, which is youโre going to set some artificial standards of what it means to be a good Christian. Youโre going to meet those standards, and so what happens? โLook at me, pretty good.โ Now youโre too smart to show that. Iโm never going to admit that youโre pretty good. Youโre going to say, โOh Iโm such a sinner, Iโm a terrible manโ, but inside you know, pretty good. If you meet up to your standards youโre going to feel pretty good about yourself.
Now what happens if you donโt meet your standards? โI cannot believe I went to that website like that again. I am such a loserโ, or, โYou know I said I was not going to yell at her again, and look at that. Iโve raised my voice and now sheโs all โฆ Why am I so stupid?โ Right? Youโre going to feel so defeated and so dejected. Why? You canโt live up to those standards that you have artificially created. The reality is that Jesusโ standard is something that none of us can live up to. The whole point is we got to quit looking at our own navel and judging, โhey how am I doing? Am I good enough? Am I making all these things happen? Am I doing what I should be doing? Look at me. Iโm terrible. Iโm goodโ, whatever. Thatโs not Christianity. The gospel is we lift our eyes, we look to Christ and we say, โYouโre enough. I want to worship you today. I want to love you today. I want to see your power at work in my life today. I donโt want to try to do this on my own.โ
Thatโs what the gospel is all about. Jesus is consistently saying to us, thereโs nothing else. Thereโs nowhere else to turn, thereโs nothing else you can look to. Thereโs nothing thatโs going to satisfy. Quit going to those things. Stay with me, look to me. Thatโs what Jesus was telling Nicodemus and thatโs what Jesus is saying to us. All of our life should be about turning away from self-reliance to God-reliance, moment by moment looking to Christ, asking the Holy Spirit to empower us, asking Christ to help us worship him above everything else and then experiencing that power that only he can give so that we can be guys who forgive people that most people would say never should be forgiven, who can love with patience and perseverance that is un-explainable, who can sacrifice for the good of others, who can put their ego behind them. How does that happen? The only way that happens is because Christ has given us the power to want him to receive the glory more than we receive it for ourselves.
Let me give you some applications this morning. Number 1, in what parts of your life are you relying on your own abilities or your own goodness to make you good enough? Maybe in your marriage, maybe you are on autopilot. โHey, you know Iโve been married almost 30 years, pretty much got it down. I know if you do this, this, this, she reacts this way. Avoid this, donโt say that. Make sure you take care of this. Pretty easy.โ Well of course, everybody knows itโs not easy. We can get it there. Maybe itโs parenting, being a dad. Maybe itโs in your work, youโve gotten complacent. Itโs easy to kind of just do the bare minimum. Youโre on autopilot. Where do you need to abandon self-reliance and look to Jesus?
Number 2, have you become complacent looking at Jesus as something other than your absolute Lord? Maybe you see him as a teacher. Maybe youโre looking for tips on how to have a more successful life, how to have a better marriage, how to be a better dad, how to have a stronger career. Maybe you see him as an example primarily. Youโve kind of said, โI need to love like Jesus lovedโ, or โwow, look at how patient Jesus was.โ Maybe you think of him primarily as your friend. โItโs nice to have Jesus in my corner. Heโs always thereโ, but youโre not really bowing down to him, youโre not really surrendering to him as your absolute Lord saying, โJesus, whatever you want, let your will be done and not mine.โ Thatโs what Jesus demands from us.
Number 3, maybe youโre worshiping multiple things and youโre kind of okay with that. Maybe youโre worshiping security, โHaving enough in my 401K and having a safe car and good job and insurance and alarm system on my house. Everything seems to be okay. My kids are doing good. Grandkids are fine.โ Youโve elevated security to a co-god with Jesus. Maybe you worship your hobbies, could be college football, could be golf, could be hunting. A lot of men worship their hobbies. They elevate it to a level where they invest all kinds of time and energy and effort and itโs fun. Has it gotten out of control? Sometimes we need to ask that question.
How about your marriage? A lot of men worship their marriage. Everything is about making my wife happy. If everything is about making your wife happy, this is a message for another day, but if everything is about making your wife happy in 20 years sheโs not going to be very happy because thatโs not what you were made for; you were made to be a man. Youโre not a man when you worship your marriage, youโre a man when you worship Jesus.
How about your career? A lot of guys are really investing themselves in their workplace in a way thatโs out of control. Everything is about how much I can get out of this job or getting that next promotion or getting to a certain level. These things that we worship โฆ This text shows us that Jesus wants it all. Jesus wants it all. Maybe youโre worshiping something other than him.
Number 4, if you know youโre bad today, great. Great. Man you have got such an advantage this morning. You donโt have the issue that Nicodemus does. Read John 4 and you will be amazed to see how Jesus treats this woman that knew she was bad. If you know youโre bad today, come to Jesus. Thatโs perfect. He wants desperate men who desperately need Him. He will transform your life from the inside out. Jesus accepts us, he changes us, but he doesnโt allow us to continue to rely on ourselves. Heโs going to force us to turn our whole hearts towards him.
Letโs pray. God we thank you so much for this message today. We thank you for this passage of scripture. Jesus this is a little bit different than we normally think about you, confronting Nicodemus with frankly pretty in your face kind of stuff. Lord I donโt often allow you to do that, and yet I think Iโm a lot like Nicodemus and I need it. Lord, I want to surrender myself today to say whatever you need to get in my face about, do it.
I would pray the same thing for these men that are here. If there are those who have been relying on themselves in any area of their life that you would root that out of their hearts, that they would not just see adding you on as some kind of convenient or nice addition to their lives; but rather they would radically surrender everything and put their whole hope and trust in you. For those who are here today that are feeling depressed, dejected, failures, Lord that know that theyโre desperate, I pray that they would turn to you. Lord, what a great place to be in if they were really surrender, if they were really abandon themselves. Would you do that in our hearts, Lord? Would you draw us to that place where we recognize that there is nothing else, nowhere else to turn, nowhere to run, but only you. We pray this in the strong name of Jesus, and for your glory, Amen.
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