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Jesus, I’m Begging You. Please Help.
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John 4:43-54 What area of your life is so desperate that you have nowhere else to turn? Join us as we look at a man so desperate that he literally BEGGED Jesus for help when his son was dying. And Jesus did help him. What is the “death” you are facing? Do you believe—really believe—that…
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Why Am I Suffering? Is It Because Of My Sins?
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John 5:1-16 Christians believe that everything happens for a reason. But an alarming number of us are in bondage. Why? Because we assume the reason we’re suffering is that we’ve done something wrong. Today’s text just seems to add fuel to that fire! After healing a man who was an invalid for 38 years Jesus…
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More Than a Feeling
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1 John 3:11-24 Is there something you really love? Like a hobby? Or a sports team? Or a person? When you love something, you don’t just put it on the back burner and hope you get around to it. You pursue it, learn about it, expend time and energy on it. The world often defines…
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The Boy Who Gave Away His Lunch
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Matthew 14:14-21; Luke 8:1-3; Luke 21:1-4; 1 John 4:7-8 Do you have any bad habits? Do you bite your nails when you’re nervous, speed up when someone goes to pass you, use sarcasm to cover up an insecurity? What about good habits? Are you a runner or a healthy eater? Where do these habits come…
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Session 1: Identity – Setting Who I Am and What My Life Is About
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Colossians 2:8, 1 Samuel 16:7, 1 John 2:15-17 Have you had your identity stolen? It creates a huge inconvenience, doesn’t it? Or worse! Every day Christian men get scammed, phished and hacked by the world, the flesh, and the devil to steal—or at least compromise—our identities. In this first lesson of a new series, The…
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Session 2: Life Balance & How To Be Faithful With Everything Entrusted To Me
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1 Corinthians 4:2, Matthew 22:37-40, John 14:15, 21, 23, Philippians 2:13 James is stressed and out of whack. He’s giving the best of himself to the people who appreciate him the least. We’ll lay out the challenge for James to get his life in balance and, in the process, cover what it takes for each…
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Session 3: Growth – Becoming a More Kingdom-Minded Man
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Romans 12:2, Hebrew 4:12, 6:1-2, 10:25, 13:20-21, Colossians 1:24-2:3 Some men are not ready to grow, but what about those who are? What do they want? What do they need? How can they get it? Join us as Patrick Morley attempts the death-defying feat of trying to condense 32 years of teaching into a single…
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Session 4: Marriage – Finding A New Best Friend In Your Wife
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Genesis 2:18, 24-25, 3:16, Ephesians 5:25, 1 Corinthians 7, 13:1-8 Who do you know who would love to learn more about staying married for a long, long time? Maybe he’s already married, or maybe he would like to be. Bring him with you for this lesson as Patrick Morley features the premier lessons from his…
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Session 5: Children – A Dad Who Really Makes a Difference
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Proverbs 23:24, Colossians 3:21, Ephesians 6:4, Deuteronomy 6:1-9, Psalm 78:1-7, 1 Kings 1:6, Proverbs 19:3, 22:15, Matthew 12:34, 1 Timothy 5:8 What do our children most need from their fathers? How can we meet those needs? Join Patrick Morley as we explore what the Bible says are the greatest needs of our children, then unpack a…
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Session 6: Friendships – Finding and Keeping Godly Friends
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Do you have a friend who would do anything for you—the kind you can call at 2:00 AM and they will come running? We all know we need some friends and brothers with whom we can do life together and talk honestly about the struggles unique to men. But adult male friendships are difficult to…
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Session 7: Work: How Should I Think About Work?
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Genesis 1:27-28, 2:15, 3:17-19, Psalm 8:6-8, Ecclesiastes 2:24-25, 3:22, 5:18-19, Matthew 25:14-33, 1 Corinthians 10:31, Colossians 3:22-24, 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, 2 Thessalonians 3:6-12, James 4:13-15 Do you love your work? Pat Morley says, “There is no greater feeling than to believe, ‘This is what I’m supposed to be doing, right here, right now—even if it’s hard.’”…
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Session 8: Lust – The Right Way To Deal With This Powerful Drive
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2 Peter 3:3-4, Matthew 5:27-30, James 1:13-15, Romans 6:12-14, 13:12-14,1 Peter 1:14-16, Ephesians 2:3, Titus 3:3, , 1 Corinthians 7:1-9 & 10:13, 1 John 1:9-10 What man doesn’t like to look at a pretty girl? But when does looking become lusting? And what exactly is lust, anyway? Join Patrick Morley for biblical and practical answers to…
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Session 9: Culture – The Role of a Christian Man in Our Current Culture
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In a nutshell: Luke 10: 25-37, 12:9-14, also Matthew 7:24-27, 9:9-13, 7:15, 22:17-22, 13:24-30, 5:45, 5:23-24 Here’s a sample of the questions men are asking, “I want to be a Christian who makes a difference, but I don’t want to be belligerent about it. How can I engage with a rapidly vacillating culture? How can I…
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Session 10: Sharing My Faith – Authentically Helping Others Change Their Lives
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Matthew 28:18-20, Acts 1:8, Romans 1:16, 2 Corinthians 5:11-21, John 15:8, 16-17 Every man knows he should share his faith with others who do not know Christ. As one man said, “Sharing my faith scares and intimidates me.” But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t weigh on him. That’s why he and other men want to…
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Overtime: Suffering & Does He Know? Does He Care? Can He Do Anything About It?
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1 Peter 4:12-5:11, Various The problem with pain and suffering is that it really, really hurts. And we all have them—physical, financial, family, work, emotional, and psychological pains. Some are self-inflicted, but other appear random. Could that be true? Suffering raises these profound questions about God: Does he know what I’m going through? If he…
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Overtime: Identity, Part 2 & Settling Who I Am & What My Life Is All About
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2 Corinthians 5:17 Word spread throughout the hospital about the infectious man in room 3330. You won’t believe what happened next! Join Patrick Morley as we discuss what all men want and how God provides for you to get it. You will also have a unique opportunity to make “My Declaration of Christian Manhood.” Good…
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Why Did Jesus Miraculously Feed 5,000—If It Really Happened?
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John 6:1-15 Do the miracles of Jesus make it easier or harder for you to believe? It seems logical that it would be easier to believe miracles if they were repeatable—for example, the feeding of the 5,000. But is that really true? Join Patrick Morley as we explore the driving force behind this miracle, its…
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This Bad Thing Could Easily Be The Best Thing That Ever Happens To You
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John 11 What is the bad thing that is weighing you down? Does it feel like a problem without a solution? Does your situation seem hopeless? That’s certainly how the man in this story felt. Born blind, a beggar, so inconsequential the story doesn’t even mention his name! Yet out of this story emerges a…
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Who is Jesus Christ? [Patrick Morley]
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The Big Idea: The best person to answer questions about Jesus is Jesus. John 1:1-14, Colossians 1:15, 2:9, Hebrews 1:3, John 10:30, 14:6, 9 Jesus Christ is easily the most interesting, unique, revered, admired, worshiped, misunderstood, disrespected, ridiculed, and talked about man of all time. What we know about Jesus dwarfs what we know about…
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What Do You Want? [Patrick Morley]
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The Big Idea: I would rather die for a worthy cause than live for no reason. John 1:29-51, Philippians 1:29 Imagine bumping into the President of the United States (or Bono or Billy Graham) on the sidewalk. You start to follow him. Seeing your curiosity, he asks, “What do you want?” That’s exactly what happened…
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Can We Believe in Miracles [Patrick Morley]
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The Big Idea: Miracles release faith, so boldly explain them—don’t explain them away. John 2:1-11 Many consider the miracles charming, antiquated myths. In fact, you yourself may find them somewhat embarrassing, or feel a need to explain them away. But without miracles—the virgin birth, the resurrection, walking on water, and turning water to wine—what’s left?…
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“Scary” Jesus Disperses Crowd at Shopping Mall [Patrick Morley]
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John 2:12-17 EVERYTHING Jesus did then applies now. In today’s passage Jesus cracks a whip and clears out an emporium of merchants and bankers. They were just trying to help people get what they needed to make their offerings and sacrifices to God. So why the “scary” Jesus? What made him so upset? And how…
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“Cryptic” Jesus Clarifies Our Message [Patrick Morley]
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John 3:1-21, 20:30-31 I suspect we both would have liked Nicodemus. Jesus certainly did! Who do you really care about who, like Nicodemus, just can’t grasp or accept the whole “Jesus” thing? In this lesson we’re going to drill down on how we can simplify our mission with those people. Join Patrick MorleyJesus Unfiltered Session…
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Why God DID NOT Send Jesus [Patrick Morley]
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John 3:17-21, 1 Corinthians 3:11-15, 5:9-13 The world’s already ugly enough without Christians piling on. But is that just an opinion? What does the Bible say? In this lesson we’re going to see that the world doesn’t need to be condemned (and you’ll clearly understand why). It needs to be saved. You may think, “Well,…
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Jesus in the Courtroom [Zach Van Dyke]
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Zachariah 3:1-5 Have you ever stood before a judge in a courtroom? Whether you were guilty or not, it can be a scary place to stand. As men, we often find ourselves on trial in our workplaces, in our homes, and even within our own minds. If Jesus is merely an example of how we…
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No Matter What You’ve Done You Can Be Forgiven
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John 4:5-26 When Jesus told Nicodemus that he came not to condemn the world but to save it, his disciples initially would have had no way to grasp just how far and wide that salvation could go. It turns out, even “three strikers” from the world’s perspective are still eligible. Join us as Patrick Morley…
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How You Can Easily Tell Anyone About Jesus [Patrick Morley]
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John 4:27-38 All of us know we should share our faith openly and often. But it’s an easier idea to explain than execute! What can we do if we don’t feel qualified to introduce people to Jesus? Is there a workaround? The Holy Spirit has preserved the story of the woman at the well for…
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Becoming a Band of Brothers With a BHAG
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John 4:31-37, Luke 10:2-3, Matthew 9:35-38 Do you have strong bonds with other men? They could be built around children’s activities, hunting, fishing, football, motorcycles, golf, work, politics, photography, stamps, a men’s Bible study group, or one of many other options. Patrick Morley explains that he has only ever been able to find one bond…
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The Goal of Biblical Manhood
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The Big Idea: Your worst day with Jesus can be infinitely better than your best day without Him. Every day you get up, get dressed, go to work, come home, eat some dinner, watch a little TV, maybe read something, go to bed, then get up and do it all over again. Why? So one…
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What We Learn From The Wise Men
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What prompted the three wise men to update their passports and travel to Bethlehem to worship an infant child? What prompts men to seek Jesus today, and is it different or the same? In this special Christmas message, we will look at how the Lord guided the wise men, and how he guides men today.…
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What Is Biblical Manhood, and How Do We Get It?
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The Big Idea: I don’t just read my Bible. I let my Bible read me. Why do we need biblical manhood? Mick Jagger tells us why in the evergreen lyric, “I can’t get no satisfaction. I try, and I try, and I try, and I try. Can’t you see I’m on a losing streak. I…
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The Skeleton Key to Biblical Manhood
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The Big Idea: A group, a Bible, and serving someone else will solve 90% of my problems. You love Jesus. Great. But if loving Jesus by itself was enough to achieve biblical manhood, you would’ve arrived a long time ago, right? So what’s really going on, and what can we do about it? The solution…
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4 Contrasting World Visions
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The Big Idea: My belief system is perfectly designed to produce the results I’ve been getting. As we kick-off the Challenge 2 in The Journey to Biblical Manhood entitled, “The Gospel: Build a Firm Foundation in the Faith,” I thought a good place to start would be contrasting the four visions of the world we…
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The 5 Types of Men
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The Big Idea: Adam failed. Jesus Nailed. Grace Prevailed. The “four visions of the world” explained in our last lesson produce “five types of men.” Which one are you? Join us this week and learn the answer! We’ll delve into the chart Man in the Mirror uses around the world to explain these 5 types of…
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68 Words That Guarantee Marriage Success [Pat Morley]
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The Big Idea: Father, I said till death do us part, I want to mean it. Help me to love you more than her and her more than anyone or anything else. Help me bring her into your presence today. Make us one like you are three in one. I want to hear her, cherish…
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Some Wounds Are So Deep That Only a Friend Can Heal
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The Big Idea: We are made for relationships. You’ve fought a good fight. But you’re tired. The fatigue is messing with your mind. It has made you fragile, touchy, maybe irritable. As a result you’ve been withdrawing from your friends. Then, isolated from a community of brothers who genuinely care about you, your mind begins…
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Fathering the Heart Trounces Fathering for Performance
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The Big Idea: What’s going on in my child’s heart that’s making them behave this way? Every Christian father wants every child to love God and people, live clean, serve others, and grow in spiritual maturity. In other words, to become a disciple of Jesus. The problem? “Folly is bound up in the heart of…
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How Your Child Decides How Much You Care
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The Big Idea: Yes, I love you and no, you can’t have your own way. A teenager was overheard on his cellphone, “Mom, I know you don’t care, but my car won’t start and I need you to come pick me up. Please call me.” How do you think your child decides how much you care…
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Introducing the Spiritual Disciplines
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The Big Idea: Disciplines are how I release the power of God into my everyday life. James 4:8, Psalm 19, Romans 1:20, Psalm 8:3-4 A man said, “Do me a favor. Tell me how to be good. I already know how bad I am.” Spiritual strength, like surgical skill or athletic excellence, requires training and practice.…
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What Does God Want Me To Know About My Work?
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The Big Idea: I am an “ordained” ________. John 5:7, Psalm 8:3-6, Genesis 2:15, 3:17-19 As men, we love to work, and we love to spend ourselves in a worthy cause. But can these two ideas be combined? Can installing septic tanks or unclogging stopped up plumbing really make the world a better place? Can…
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How Hard Should You Be Working?
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Big Idea: God calls us to be faithful,not successful. Colossians 3:23-24, Matthew 25:14-30 Work is a topic that doesn’t receive a lot Christian teaching. Which is ironic since most of us spend half our waking hours at work! Regrettably, most of us have had to cobble together our own “theology of work.” Perhaps that’s why…
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How Can You Help Hurting Men Through Your Work?
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The Big Idea: How I do my work is my loudest voice. 2 Corinthians 5:11-20, 1 Peter 3:15-16, 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, Jeremiah 29:7 When a man you know through work is hurting and all hope is lost, where can he turn? Will he turn to you? That’s what we all want, right? But how does…
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God Has a “Personal” Ministry Just For You
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Big Idea: I will feel most alive when I’m doing the works God created me to do. Ephesians 2:4-10, Matthew 28:18-20, Galatians 2:10 Romans 12:3-8; 1 Corinthians 12:1-31; Ephesians 4:11-13; 1 Peter 4:9-11 We all know we are created to serve—to make a difference, right? But did you know that God actually has a “personal” ministry…
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Finding Your Ministry Niche
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BIG IDEA: When I am filled to the overflow I can’t wait to give it away. John 15:1-17, Philippians 2:13 What’s their secret? Why do some men leave such a big crater for Christ, while others bump along barely getting by? You may be surprised at that the answer! Join us as we learn where…
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The Spiritual Physics of Money
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Matthew 6:19-34, Psalm 37:4, Proverbs 21:20, 13:4, 27:23-24, 1 Timothy 6:7-10, Ecclesiastes 5:10-11, Philippians 4:19 Can you explain money to a new Christian? For example, is it okay for a Christian to want to be rich? How does money threaten our relationship with Jesus, and how can we protect ourselves? Can we really trust God…
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What If God Told You Money Can Buy Happiness?
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Ecclesiastes 5:18-20, Luke 18:18-30, 19:1-10, 1 Samuel 16:7, 2 Corinthians 8:12, 9:6-11, Psalm 37:23-26 The Big Idea: Have you ever known a generous man who was not fundamentally happy with his lot in life? In this week’s lesson we’re going to explore the relationship between money and happiness. There is a connection, but it may…
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The Care and Feeding of a Pastor [Dr. Joel Hunter]
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The Bible speaks of pastors as a gift, and spiritual leadership not only as a responsibility but a joy. We are admonished to pay attention to them so that their leadership is a joy, and they are admonished to lead by example with eagerness. Join Pastor Hunter as he helps us understand a little more…
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Understanding Integrity From God’s Perspective
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Luke 16:10-12, Job 2:3-10, Galatians 5:16-17, Mark 12:13-14, Genesis 39:6-10 We all have hopes and dreams. But what if you’re unwittingly sabotaging those hopes and dreams? Wouldn’t you want to know what’s holding you back, and how to correct it? Join Patrick Morley as we learn more about how we can live as men of…
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The Surefire Way To Be Known As a Man Of Integrity
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The Big Idea: Just do whatever love would do. Galatians 5:13-24, Romans 13:8-10, Matthew 7:12, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, John 14:26 You already know if integrity was merely about getting the right information, we’d all have slam dunked this long ago! So what’s the problem? Is God’s moral code just a bridge too far? More importantly,…
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Why Does The Bible Teach Us To Be Joyful In Suffering?
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1 Peter 4:12-19, Romans 5:3-5, James 1:2-4, 2 Corinthians 12:7-10, Romans 8:18-23, Psalm 118:24, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, Psalm 119:67-75, 2 Corinthians 11:23-30 Suffering is part of the deal. Fortunately, the Bible doesn’t try to pretend suffering doesn’t hurt or that it’s something good. But the Bible does teach us to be joyful when we’re suffering.…
