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Chapter 1 | Why Am I Still So Restless?
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Some men are restless because life hasn’t worked out like they hoped—dreams delayed, plans derailed, purpose unclear. Others are restless because it did work out—but it didn’t satisfy. Either way, they’re asking the same quiet question: Why do I still feel this way? If you’re mentoring, discipling, or leading men, you’ve already met both types. One man is…
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The Tale of Two Men with Ronn Read
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Join us for a tale of two men with guest speaker Ronn Read, National Chaplain for Man in the Mirror. We’ll explore the story of Abraham and Lot and the differentiating factors that forever altered their individual journeys—and the influences and decisions that still have the power to alter our journeys today. Raw, unedited transcript…
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Chapter 1 | The Rat Race
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We’re excited to kick off a new series on The Man in the Mirror book. In this message, Pat Morley is tackling the “rat race”—the endless pursuit of a moving target that so many men are caught up in. For many of us, that includes the man staring back when we look in the mirror! But any good…
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Chapter 2 | Leading an Unexamined Life
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We all want the same things—something to give our lives to that will make a difference, someone to share our lives with, and a belief system that makes sense of why life is so hard. Christianity and secularism both offer solutions to these problems but with dramatically different results. This week, join Pat Morley to explore…
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Chapter 3 | Are you a Biblical Christian or a Cultural Christian?
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Would your family and friends say you lead a vibrant life in Christ? Or do you find yourself vacillating between the values of this world and the values of Jesus? A lot of men you know—maybe you—feel stuck in spiritual mediocrity. They have become cultural Christians rather than biblical Christians. And they hate it! Obviously,…
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Chapter 4 | Significance: The Search for Meaning and Purpose
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What is a man’s greatest need in this world? Women share this need too, but for men it tends to be all-consuming—#1. Yet many men are not able to name it, much less tell you how to satisfy it. And among those who can name it, too many are trying to satisfy their greatest need…
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Chapter 5 | Purpose: Why Do I Exist?
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Do you have a clear sense of purpose? Are you moving in the right direction? Or does life sometimes feel random—or even pointless? Nothing fuels a man’s soul like knowing his purpose, and nothing drains him more than not knowing. Raw, unedited transcript from video Well, we are in the series The Man in the Mirror book…
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Chapter 6 | The Secret of Job Contentment
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Learn the secret to real job satisfaction from Pat Morley, who built one of Florida’s 100 largest privately-held companies. In this eye-opening message, discover what really drives job contentment and how you can find deeper fulfillment in your work—starting now. Pulling from both The Man in the Mirrorand A Man’s Guide to Work, don’t miss this opportunity to hit the reset…
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Chapter 7 | Broken Relationships
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What if, in the pursuit of success, you’re unknowingly neglecting the people who matter most? What if, instead, you prioritized everything on the basis of who will be crying at your funeral? Join Pat Morley this week as we unpack three powerful shifts to realign your life before it’s too late: how to schedule priorities instead of just…
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Chapter 8 | Children: How to Avoid Regrets
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Every dad wants to get it right—but too many look back with regrets. That doesn’t have to be your story! You can’t change the past, but you can shape the future. Join Pat Morley as we unpack five powerful, proven ways to be the dad your children need. Whether your kids are young or grown, it’s never too…
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Chapter 9 | Wives: How to Be Happily Married
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Sigmund Freud famously admitted, “Despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, I have not yet been able to answer that great question… What does a woman want?” If only he had turned to Scripture! Join Pat Morley as we unpack exactly what your wife or future wife truly wants and needs—and how you can give…
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Chapter 10 | Friends: Risks & Rewards
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Brothers, we all know that friendships are a gift—but why are they so hard to start and even harder to keep? Most men live with a friendship deficit, leaving them isolated and vulnerable. Join Pat Morley, and we’ll unpack what a true friend really looks like and how to build the kind of friendships that stand…
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Chapter 11 | Money: A Biblical Point of View
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We all need money—but is it really delivering what it promises? Jesus had a lot to say about money, and not all of it was comfortable. Tomorrow, join Pat as we look at three competing perspectives on money—and discover why only one truly leads to peace and purpose. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance…
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Chapter 12 | The Four Pillars of Financial Strength
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What should be your financial aspirations? Whether you’re doing well, just getting started, or trying to recover, your biblical IQ about money is about to get a big bump! In this lesson Patrick Morley will help you find clarity: Raw, unedited transcript from video Good morning, men. Good morning, and welcome to Man Alive. We…
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Chapter 13 | Decisions: How to Make the Right Choice
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Most of life’s big decisions—such as changing jobs, moving, relationships, or ministry—aren’t directly answered in Scripture. So how do you know what God wants you to do? Join Pat Morley and together we will walk through a biblical process that can help you make wise, godly choices with confidence. If you’re facing a big decision (or…
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Chapter 14 | Priorities: How To Decide What’s Important
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Pressure is coming at us from every direction—work, family, finances, health. With more to do than time to do it, how do you decide what really matters? Join Pat Morley as we explore five biblical priorities that can bring clarity, peace, and purpose to your daily life. If you’re feeling stretched thin or struggling to stay…
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Chapter 15 | Time Management: Doing God’s Will
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Most of us wish we had more time to get everything done. It’s frustrating and stressful. You already know this, but you have all the time you need to do everything God wants you to do. The question is, how? Join Pat Morley and hone 3 skills that will put you in—or back in—control of your…
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Chapter 16 | Pride
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Has pride taken a toll on your career, reputation, and relationships? If so, you’re in good company. In fact, pride is the mother of all troubles for most men. Pride will hold back (or wreck) your career, damage (or destroy) your reputation, and tear down (or ruin) your most important relationships. In fact, pride will…
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Chapter 17 | Fear
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Everyone struggles with fear: What if this deal falls through? Will she ever feel safe with me again? Will I be able to make payroll? Is it cancer? How am I going to pay my mortgage? What kind of world are my children going to grow up in? Fear is a normal human emotion. But…
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Chapter 18 | Anger
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The Big Idea: I pledge not to sin when I get angry, but openly confess I can’t do it on my own. Studies show that 75 – 90% of all doctor’s office visits are stress-related, and the most destructive form of stress is anger. Anger is not a sin–Jesus got angry, but anger can easily…
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Chapter 19 | The Desire To Be Independent
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Men want to be in charge—to call the shots. And in many ways, God has given us the freedom to lead, build, and take responsibility. But freedom isn’t the same thing as autonomy. Still, we chase it.We try to control our circumstances.We “strive” for financial independence.We just want to be left alone to do our…
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Chapter 20 | Avoiding Suffering
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What is making you suffer? Do you think God knows what you’re going through? If He knows, does He care? If He knows and cares, can He do anything about it? And if He can, why doesn’t He? Join Pat Morley as we wrestle with these hard questions. Explore what we gain from suffering that we…
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Chapter 21 | Integrity: What’s the Price?
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What made men we look up to like Peter, Paul, David, Moses, Gideon, Samson, Jonah, and Job so different? After the smoke cleared, God could trust them in both big and little things. Were they perfect? Thank God for us, no. But in the end, second only to their faith, it was integrity that set…
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Chapter 22 | Leading a Secret Thought Life
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Most of us would be embarrassed if our families, friends, or colleagues knew what went on inside our heads. But here’s the good news: You’re not crazy. A secret thought life is normal. The question is: What kind of secret life are you leading—holy or profane? In this week’s study, we explore the battle for…
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Chapter 23 | Accountability: The Missing Link
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None of us ever plans to fail. So how do we get off track? What makes us stumble? And why do some of us even fall away? One of the biggest reasons is that we don’t have to answer to anyone for our lives. And let’s be honest, don’t we naturally kind of like it…
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Chapter 24 | How Can a Man Change?
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You already know this: if you could have made that change on your own, it would have happened by now. On the other hand, we’ve all watched men’s lives radically transformed. We’ve seen it with our own eyes. Not much will change for the better apart from Jesus—but we also have a part to play.…
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Jesus On His Own Birth
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For our annual Christmas message, join Patrick Morley for a brainstorm about how Jesus might have described coming to earth as a baby, the details of how it happened, and how he made sure his story was preserved for us. Merry Christmas! How Jesus Might Describe His Birth Luke 2:1-16, 3:23-38; Matthew 1:1-2:18 QUESTIONS: 1.…
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Man Alive Launch Party
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For more than 38 years, Pat Morley led the Man in the Mirror Bible Study, but in a new season, it’s time to launch something different. Join us for our Launch Party as we honor more than 38 years of the beloved Man Alive Bible study and embark on an exhilarating new chapter of reaching men…
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How God Speaks to Men through Creation
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We have all felt the agony of wanting to hear from God. Yet, in our hearts, don’t we intuitively know the problem isn’t that God has a speech impediment, but that we have a hearing impediment? In this first message of our new series, How God Speaks to Men, Pat Morley will show you how…
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How God Speaks to Men through Scripture
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In your vehicle you have a dashboard with gauges—some big, some small—that communicate various things to you. These gauges are vital to ensuring you can get to where you want and need to go. But what if you had a spiritual dashboard that could speak to you as clearly as the one in your…
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How God Speaks to Men through Jesus
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What do we learn from Jesus that we would otherwise not know? In the equivalent of a mere seven sermons, Jesus gave us the defining guidance we all seek for essentially every aspect of our life—identity, family, relationships, work, money, health, justice, mercy, compassion, forgiveness, suffering, service, true happiness, abundant life, building His kingdom, and…
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How God Speaks to Men through Discipline
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Raw, unedited transcript from video We may feel like we’re a lost cause. Guess what? God delights in lost causes. Well, good morning! Good to be with you men. Somebody asked, “Where’s Pat?” Who knows? I have no idea where Pat is this week. He just gives me a date and says, “You’re on this…
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How God Speaks to Men through the Spirit
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If you’ve been through a hurricane or tornado and lost power, then you know one thing for sure: It’s better to have power than to not have power. Whatever question, problem, struggle, challenge, or opportunity you’re facing, did you know God promised to provide the power you need for it through His Holy Spirit? The…
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How God Speaks to Men through Prayer
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What is the condition of your prayer life? Are you weary of praying but not getting the answers you want—or not getting any answers at all? Are you tempted to take matters into your own hands? Whether now or in the past, we’ve all been there, haven’t we? Join Pat Morley to not only rehabilitate your…
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How God Speaks to Men through Men
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It takes a man to teach a man how to be a man. Jesus knew this. That’s why He gave us such a highly reproducible model of the way He taught men, and the Apostle Paul totally got the message—we need equippers. Join us as we explore Paul’s explanation of the crucial role equippers play in God’s…
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How God Speaks to Men through the Church
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There is a comfort to driving by a little, creaky, still-standing country church on a Sunday morning, wouldn’t you agree? For reasons we can only imagine, the body of Christ—His church—though deeply flawed and far from perfect, is and always has been God’s primary and most effective voice to share the hope of the gospel…
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How God Speaks to Men through our Circumstances
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If you are a father, you know how much you pray, hope, and even ache for the wellbeing of your children in every area—their faith, relationships, emotions, career, finances, health, sense of identity and purpose, ability to overcome destructive behaviors or conquer loneliness, and so much more. That’s what our heavenly Father wants for His…
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How God Speaks to Men Through Sovereignty
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There’s a certain reassurance in watching the steady rise and fall of the ocean’s tides, isn’t there? The rhythm reminds us that, no matter how unpredictable life feels, something greater is holding it all together. In the same way, the sovereignty of God—His supreme authority and control over all things—offers us a profound comfort. Although…
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How God Speaks to Men Through Ambassadors
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This week, we’re wrapping up our series on how God speaks to men by exploring how He wants to speak through us. We’ll consider how we can apply everything we’ve learned so far in order to become His messengers, and why that matters for millions of men—men like Pat Morley, who became a follower of Jesus because…
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What is Man Alive
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The need for Man Alive has never been greater. Men are hurting. They need help and we have answers. That’s why our slogan has always been: “Investing in men who will invest in other men.” But where did we come from? Where are we today? And, more importantly, where are we going? In this message,…
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When Life Overwhelms | An Exploration of Trust and Faith
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At times, life seems to strike like arrows aimed at our every emotion, or it can hit like an earthquake shaking our very foundation—even, sometimes, the most critical foundation: our faith. And it certainly doesn’t help when everyone is yelling, “Run!” What should we do—what can we do, what must we do—in such times?…
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What Was It Like To Grow Up In Your Home?
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There are millions of us. We carry around leftover pain from childhood wounds. As a result of this unprocessed pain, we act out in ways that damage our relationships. We’re easily offended. Fragile. We lash out. We withdraw. We’re baffled by our behavior. Frankly, we’re not even sure what normal behavior looks like. We all…
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How Our Parents Wounded Us
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If your parents were never properly parented themselves, that put them at great risk to repeat the cycle with you. And that puts you at risk of repeating the vicious cycle all over again. If you or someone you love is caught in a cycle, can put a stop to your family’s intergenerational dysfunction. But…
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How Childhood Wounds Affect Adults
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The following questions might apply to you or a loved one: – Do you struggle to believe that people really care about you? – Do others accuse you of being oversensitive or taking things too personally? – Is there something that routinely triggers your anger? – Is there a particular area of your life where…
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How Childhood Wounds Affect Adults part 2
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Do you regularly find yourself feeling insecure and looking for reassurance? Do you experience big mood swings, but don’t know why? Are you especially responsible or immature for your age? Do you have a negative experience, word, thought, or voice in your head from your childhood that stills torments you? Are you estranged from any…
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An Overview of How You Can Heal
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What’s it going to take for you, your loved one, or a friend to start healing from childhood wounds? Healing is all about pain—acknowledging it’s there, identifying where it’s coming from, and then knowing how to face it, grieve, accept it, take control, and heal. Tune in for an overview of the stages of healing.…
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How to Overcome Denial and Face the Truth
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Denial can be tenacious. Facing difficult, painful, or humiliating facts from your or your loved one’s childhood can be hard. Most worthwhile things are. I commend your bravery to tackle the truth. But it can also to be so liberating and soothing that you’re going to feel like you’re seeing things as they really are—perhaps…
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How to Grieve What Should Have Been
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Something was taken from you, your loved one, or friend. You didn’t have the childhood you wanted, deserved, and should have experienced. You have been afflicted. You feel the loss deeply. Now that you’ve faced this truth, you need to grieve what went wrong. In this practical lesson, Pat Morley will help you understand grief, the…
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How to Find Rest for Your Soul
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Did you know that all successful recovery programs address spiritual needs? There’s a reason for that: A relationship with Jesus can give us the rest for our souls that no amount of human effort will ever be able to provide. If you’re on your way to being mended, you have faced the truth of what…
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How to Forgive Your Parents
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If your parents wounded you, they are responsible for that, whether they knew what they were doing or not. But without forgiveness, the future will look no different than the past. Forgiving your parents is not dismissing what they did, or pretending that your wounds never happened. After all, there would be no need for…
